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An Old Fashioned Tea Party

By

Suzanne Barrington

Southern Territory

 

April – Service 2006

 

 

 

Preparation

Set up small tables around the room. Ideally there should be no more than four women at a table. Ahead of time, ask some of the women to bring small tablecloths, teapots, teacups and cream and sugar bowls. You will need enough for each table. If this is difficult, there are many beautiful paper goods from which to choose. An alternate idea would be for each woman to bring her own favorite teacup to use at the party.

 

Place a spring floral arrangement on the serving table. Serve finger sandwiches and small pastries. The tea can be served buffet style or a hostess assigned to serve at each table.

 

Program Ideas

Getting to Know You

Encourage the women to sit with someone they don’t know well so they can get better acquainted. An easy way to accomplish this is to have the women number off—keeping

in mind the number of places and tables available.

 

After everyone has enjoyed their refreshments, encourage them to share little known facts about each other. Use the following questions to get them started:

 

*  Where did you grow up?

*  What is your happiest childhood memory?

*  Share something about your best childhood friend.

*  If you could meet anyone in the world, who would it be and what would you ask them?

*  What is your favorite way to spend a free afternoon?

 

Teapots and Teacups

Have the women who brought teapots or teacups share the significance of these items.

 

Drama—Let the Party Begin

Attached

 

Service Projects

Traveling Tea Party

Using the same model, take the tea party on the road. Organize the women into small groups to visit with shut–ins or the women in a shelter or transitional housing program. Pack baskets ready for instant tea parties, complete with teapots, teacups, plates, napkins, finger sandwiches and pastries—everything that will be needed to serve tea away from the corps. Give a teacup as a gift to each woman the groups visit.

 

Neighborhood Tea Parties

Encourage the women to reach out to their neighbors by holding a tea party in their home. There are many lonely women who would welcome the opportunity to be invited to participate. What better way to introduce them to the Lord?

 

Resource

An excellent resource for tea party ideas is “If Teacups Could Talk” by Emilie Barnes, published by Harvest House Publishers, Eugene, Oregon.

 

Devotions

 

 

Fellowship With Thee

 

Read Philippians 3:8–11.

 

Intimacy is the word that comes to my mind when I think of sitting down to share a cup of tea with a family member or friend. I have wonderful memories of long, lingering breakfasts with my mom and that extra cup of tea. Those were the times I would pour out my heart to her and seek her wise and godly counsel. My mom has since passed away but my stepmother is also a tea drinker and I now enjoy sharing a cup of tea with her and my dad. I am also thankful for those intimate times I shared with my mother–in–law, before she passed away, over a cup of steaming hot tea. When I visit in my sister’s home and she says, “Let’s have a cup of tea,” I know there will be good conversation to follow.

 

God longs for that same kind of lingering, sharing, seeking and loving intimacy from us. His desire is that we get to know Him in a personal way. The Apostle Paul says it like this, “I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ” (Phil. 3:8). What a statement! For Paul, everything he had accomplished

in his life was rubbish compared to knowing the Lord Jesus Christ. Paul’s longing for intimacy with his Savior, was more important than anything to him.

 

General Albert Orsborn, the sixth general of The Salvation Army, wrote the song “Fellowship with Thee.” The chorus states:

 

Fellowship with Thee,

Fellowship with Thee,

Give me constantly to know

Fellowship with Thee.

 

I have underlined a phrase from verse two of that song: “Calm and order all my days, Hide my life in Thee.” When our days are anything but calm and ordered, perhaps we just need to spend that intimate time with our loving Savior. It just might be the most  important thing we do all day.

 

Close by singing song #630, “Fellowship With Thee,” The Salvation Army Song Book. Then have each group close in prayer around their table.

 

 

 

 

Drama

by

Renea Smith

Central Territory

 

“Let the Party Begin”

 

 

 

Cast: Doreen—a woman about to hold a neighborhood tea party. She wears a coat and carries a purse.

 

Sue—owner of a bakery. She wears an apron and carries a clipboard with papers attached.

 

Props: A conference table, telephone, several bakery boxes and a cash box.

 

Setting: Sue is working at the counter, taking phone orders. Doreen enters the bakery as if she is in a hurry or excited.

 

Sue—Let me make sure that I have this right. You want a chocolate sheet cake with yellow frosting, no flowers. It should have a bunch of carpenter tools on the top and the words, “Happy First Construction Day.” (Sue sees Doreen and motions that it will be just one minute.) Okay, the cake will be ready by four o’clock on Wednesday. Thank you for shopping at Sue’s. (She addresses Doreen.) Hi, can I help you?

 

Doreen—Oh, yes. I ordered some iced sugar cookies for a tea party I’m having. The name is Reinholder.

 

Sue—(Begins looking through her orders. She finds the order slip.) Here it is. (She picks up a box, frowns and then brings it to Doreen with a sheepish expression.) Perhaps you’d better check this. I don’t remember taking the order. Do you know who you talked to

when you called in your order?

 

Doreen—I think he said his name was Joe. I wasn’t sure he understood me because I had to repeat it to him a couple of times. I thought maybe he was deaf.

 

Sue—No, he’s not deaf. He was probably listening to the ball game at the same time. Joe’s my husband and he was here under duress. He had a choice, either work here that Saturday or go with me to my cousin’s wedding. Maybe you’d better look at these and make sure you’re getting what you ordered.

 

Doreen—(She takes the box, opening it so that the lid hides what is inside from the audience.) Yes, that’s what I wanted—sugar cookies with bright purple frosting, red roses and lime green stems. Aren’t they beautiful?

 

Sue—Well, I … (Sue is not sure what to say since she thinks they’re ugly.) I’m glad that you are getting what you wanted. That will be twelve dollars.You must be having some kind of party.

 

Doreen—Oh, I am. My friend, Betty, and I … well, we’re having a tea party. We’ve invited some of our women neighbors. We’ve polished the silver tea service and bought some gourmet teas. It’s going to be wonderful!

 

Sue—Sounds like it. (Pulls out a cash box and puts the money in it.)

 

Doreen—Our tea party is a dress up affair. Everyone is to wear a hat. We decided we’ll have it in the garden. That’s why I wanted roses on the cookies and purple is my favorite color. Iadded the lime green for pizzazz!

 

Sue—I’m sure your guest will enjoy it.

 

Doreen—I think so. Yesterday, we set up the garden and put streamers from the house to the trees in the yard.

 

Sue—Hey, I think I passed your house. I was two blocks away, coming down the street in front of the store, when I saw a woman hanging upside down from an oak tree with a whitestreamer in her hand.

 

Doreen—Oh, that was Betty. She insisted on putting some of the streamers high in the tree. She thought they’d draw attention to the party and we do want our neighbors to come.

 

Sue—So you only live a couple of blocks from here?

 

Doreen—Yes. Hey, that means you’re our neighbor too.

 

Sue—(A little uneasily.) I guess so.

 

Doreen—Then, you could come to our party. What do you think? It’s going to be so much fun. Betty’s going to demonstrate Tae Bo. You know she’s lost forty pounds punching her fists into the air.

 

Sue—What are you celebrating?

 

Doreen—Life! Isn’t it great? Betty and I thought having a neighborhood tea party would be a good way to get to know the women around us. You know there’s nothing like a party to bring people together. Especially if you have good food!

 

Sue—So, you’re celebrating life?

 

Doreen—Yes, life and the One who gives it. He brought Betty and I together. God has given us both so much. We are blessed and we want to share it with other people.

 

Sue—Whatever gave you and Betty the idea to do this?

 

Doreen—Oh, we talked about it in the women’s group that we attend.

 

Sue—What kind of women’s group?

 

Doreen—Well, actually there are all kinds. I go to a women’s Bible study on Mondays, an aerobics group on Wednesdays and Fridays. Betty goes to the same Bible study, but she attends Tae Bo on Monday and Tuesday evenings. The Salvation Army sponsors all

of the groups. All of us decided to have a couple of parties for our neighbors this month.

 

Sue—I don’t get it. Why?

 

Doreen—Because we want God to work through us. We want to be a part of something important—reaching out and meeting new people. There are so many women who feel isolated and alone. Some don’t even know that God loves and cares about them. I want to be the one who tells them. Besides, don’t you ever just feel the need to connect with  someone who has the same interests you have—who is interesting to talk with and fun to be around—someone who helps you grow and learn how to be a better person than you are now?

 

Sue—I never thought about it. Most of the time I’m at home or here at the bakery. I never thought of being a part of anything else. I used to attend church, but I don’t go much  anymore. I guess I haven’t thought much about God loving me in a long time. You really

think He does? Love me, I mean?

 

Doreen—Yes, He definitely loves you!

 

Sue—How many women do you think will come to this tea party?

 

Doreen—We’re hoping for eight or ten. Do you want to come?

 

Sue—You know, I think I would like to. Can I bring something, maybe some cinnamon tea biscuits?

 

Doreen—Oh! I never thought of that. Do you think they could be purple?